I am not good at seduction, never have been. I have always been told I miss signals from the opposite sex. Maybe its genetic, maybe its just a button that is switched off on purpose.

I think I do it on purpose, not to seduce that is. Maybe because I do not want to be the same as one expects, or give them the satisfaction of getting what they want.

Some like to be seduced, either by words or actions, and consider that as an integral part of any relationship. I do not believe that is the case. I like to do things because I feel like it, not because I have to do it.

With age I have gotten more rigid, more stiff I think. I am not that much interested in changing, am happy the way I am. I do not think it is healthy though, I should be open to new things and new life changing experiences, what they call living your life. The problem is, I do not see a reason why I should do that.

Reason, that is always my justification for how I act or behave. I analyze too much, thinking of every little thing to the detail, which when applied to life is not the best approach. So if I know all this, why have I not done anything about it? I do not have an answer.

Guess I am who I am and will not change, stubbornness comes with being a Leo.